Abakobwa bafite imyaka 18-24 baba bakurura abagabo bakomeye biteguye rwose kubashaka, ariko kuriyi myaka benshi mu bakobwa / bashiki bacu ntibigera bifuza kumva ikintu na kimwe kijyanye nubukwe.
1. Ndi muto cyane kubwibyo.
2. Ninde wita ku gushyingirwa.
3. Nibanze ku bitabo byanjye.
4. Ndashaka kubanza gukusanya amafaranga.
5. Gushyingirwa byuzuye ibibazo.
Aya ni amwe mumagambo make abakobwa bavuga bakiri bato.
Ariko aba bakobwa bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye ndetse bakayisubiramo kenshi n'abahungu bato bo mu kigero cyabo, kuko kuri iyo myaka, bahorana igipimo kinini cyabahungu, abasore nabagabo baza babirukaho, ariko bazahitamo guhitamo abo bahungu aho guhitamo abagabo nyabo bashaka kubarongora. Bavuga ko bakiri bato, ariko bakaryamana n'abahungu.
Ntakibazo, Imana irakureba.
Ku myaka 25-27, ababyeyi bazatangira kubabaza ibibazo bikurikira;
1. bigeze he?
2. Nta musore ufite?
3. Ntabwo uteganya kurushinga?
4. Urabona ko abo mungan bose bashyingirwa?
5. Ntuzi ko usaza?
Ariko uzirikane, ababyeyi babona abakobwa babo inyuma gusa, batazi ko ntakintu gisigaye imbere.
Hamwe n'ibibazo byose by'ababyeyi be ndetse n'incuti ze, noneho azaba atekereza kandi yibaze ibintu nkibi: Abo tungana barashaka,
1. Bishatse kuvuga ko nkuze bihagije ku buryo narongorwa?
2. Hmmm, mbigenze nte?
3. Abakunzi bange nta numwe uvuga ibyo gukora ubukwe.
4. Ntibiteguye no kurushinga.
5. Nibyiza, Imana izi ibyiza. Nizera Imana.
Reba oooh ...!, Yatangiye gushyira amakosa ye ku Mana. "Igihe cyImana ni cyiza" Nibyo, ndemeranya na bo.
Ku myaka 27-30 ubu batangiye gushaka abagabo babarongora ntabwo baba bagishaka abahungu bo kwinezeza no gukina nabo.
Bazatangira gushakisha umubano ukomeye werekeza ku bukwe, ariko ikibabaje, kuriyi myaka 27-30 ntabwo abagabo benshi bazaba bakifuza kubegera.
Uzabona bahatira gushaka umugabo udashaka kubarongora.
Nta mugabo numwe ufite imyaka 27-30 uzakunda kurongora umukobwa wa 30-35.
Noneho uzumva bashiki bacu bavuga ngo imyaka ntacyo itwaye.
Mushiki wanjye, imyaka iragitwaye kinini cyane.
Tekereza kugura inyanya ziboze kumadorari 10 hanyuma inshuti yawe ikagura inshyashya ku madorari 7. Yego, uku ni ko biba bimeze no mu gushaka.
Wibuke ko wanze abagabo kuko watekerezaga ko wari muto cyane. Niki kigutera gutekereza ko gusaza kwawe ntacyo bitwaye?
Niyo mpamvu abagabo bamwe basubira mu cyaro iwabo gushaka umukobwa ukiri muto wo kurongora kubera ko abo mu mujyi bakiri bato badashaka kurongorwa kandi abiteguye gushaka nabo ugasanga ari abakecuru.
Ku myaka 30-35, inshuti ze zizamubaza ziti:
1. Kuki utararongorwa kugeza kuriyi myaka yose?
2. Ubona utarimo gutinda?
Uzumva abaza ibibazo byubusa nka ...
1. Uri Imana?
2. Cyangwa urashaka kurongora?
3. Nicyaha kuba ingaragu kuri 30 cyangwa 35?
4. Nabonye umugabo ufite ubushake bwo kundongora ariko ndabyanga?
5. Imana izi ibyiza kuri buri wese nyamuneka.
Ku myaka 30-35 bazatangira gusenga kurusha mbere, bava mu itorero rimwe bajya mu rindi. Niba ari Umuyisilamu, azatangira gusenga amasengesho ya nijoro, kwiyiriza ubusa no kwambara mu buryo bworoheje.
Niba umusabye gukundana, agusubize ati:
1. Nshuti yanjye, ntabwo meze nkabo.
2. Ndashaka umugabo ufite gahunda.
3. Niba unkunda byukuri genda urebe ababyeyi banjye ubabwire iby'ubukwe.
4. Ntabwo nshobora kugira icyo nkorana nawe ababyeyi batabizi.
Biratangaje!!!. Igihe yari afite imyaka 18-24, yakoraga byose atitaye ku babyeyi be noe ubu atangiye kubashyira imbere.
Ntuzategereze umusore wimyaka 27-30 kurongora umukobwa w'imyaka 30-35 mugihe hari abakobwa bato beza.
Nubwo yahitamo kwirengagiza imyaka yawe akakurongora, umuryango we n'inshuti bazabatandukanya.
Abagabo bazashaka kukurongora bazaba bafite imyaka 45 yrs no hejuru, abo bagabo kenshi uzasanga barashakanye n'abandi bagore bafite n'bana. Uzaba umugore wa kabiri cyangwa wa gatatu.
Ikintu cyose mubuzima gifite igihe cyacyo nigihe cyacyo.
Nta mukecuru ufite imyaka 30-35 ushaka ubukwe utigeze wegerwa mu gihe cya 18-24. Ariko icyo gihe, basimbukaga cyane bava muri clubs / ibirori bajya mucyumba cya hoteri bashaka kwinezeza mu mwanya wo KUBAKA URUGO.
Ntabwo ibintu byose bijyanye no gusenga. Imana yakuremye yaguteganyirije umugambi. Ariko iyo uhinduye gahunda cyangwa ugatana, nyamuneka ntugatere Imana STRESS. Kubera ko, Izaba Ihugiye mu gutegura gahunda za barumuna bawe.
Tekereza kuri ibi mugihe ufite umwanya.
